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You might have seen in the news last week that Government announced some potential major new changes to wedding laws in England and Wales in the near future. Spoiler alert: humanist weddings led by celebrants like me are finally set to become legal. As an experienced wedding celebrant, I thought I'd share a quick summary of the most relevant changes for couples being put forward. These include:


  • Legal humanist and other celebrant-led weddings (!)

  • Opening up the types of venues where couples can get married

  • More inclusive legal wording for trans and non-binary couples and nearly-weds

  • Using different languages in legal wedding ceremonies going forward (an important one for me as an experienced wedding celebrant specialising in bilingual ceremonies in Welsh and French)


For more detailed information, take a look at the Government consultation, which is open for responses until 24th September 2026. The link is here.


But if you don’t fancy poring through the full 100 pages (I’ve done that for you already!) here’s a short summary of what I think are the most important changes for couples below.


Experienced wedding celebrant Mair Garland. The image is from the UK Ministry of Justice's Instagram account announcing its consultation on marriage reform in England and Wales. The text reads "Get married your way. Help us rewrite the rules." The image is of Nessa and Smithy's wedding from the Gavin & Stacey finale.
As Nessa would say: "Oh! Get married your way!" Source: Ministry of Justice's Instagram Page

Will humanist wedding ceremonies become legal?


Yes. Finally! The Government recognises that the current system - where couples who want to have a humanist or another kind of celebrant to lead their wedding also have to have a separate civil ceremony with a registrar, adds extra cost and admin for couples.


Under the proposed rules, celebrants, including humanist celebrants like me, will be able to offer legal ceremonies in England and Wales for the first time. Hooray! Humanist ceremonies have been legal for several years now in Scotland and Northern Ireland and continue to be hugely popular.


This is great news and means that couples who want a celebrant-led wedding will only need to have one wedding ceremony, which will be legally binding – this will help save time, money and complexity for couples.


Humanists UK estimates that as many as 20% of couples will choose a humanist celebrant to lead their wedding once the changes come into force. More information from Humanists UK here.


That sounds amazing! When will celebrant-led weddings become legal?


Unfortunately, there’s no timescale set out in the consultation just yet and it could still be a few years away.


So, if you’re planning your wedding right now, it’s safest to assume you’ll still need a separate civil ceremony with a registrar if you’d also like a celebrant-led ceremony. If you’d like some advice on this, please get in touch.


The most basic legal ceremony with two witnesses midweek in a register office costs around £50, so it doesn’t need to cost the earth.


Where will we be able to get married in future? Could we get married at home?


One of the biggest changes announced is the intention to open up the types of venue where weddings can happen. The Government says it sees no reason why a legal wedding can’t take place on a beach, in a field, a forest or a couple’s back garden. I couldn’t agree more!


This is part of the wider proposals to move away from venue-based licences to licences being held by ‘officiants’, including humanist celebrants like me.


Again, there’s no timescale been shared to say exactly when this will happen.

The only condition is the venue must be safe for the couple and guests (so no getting married during a bungee jump or a sky dive!) and that the ceremony can happen without interruptions (so not in a stadium during a football match or a gig, for example).


Will legal wedding ceremonies be made more inclusive for trans and non-binary nearly-weds?


One really positive change from the consultation is the plan to update the words of consent (which need to be said in a legal ceremony) to include ‘spouse’ as an option as well as ‘husband’ or ‘wife’ for any partners who don’t identify with those terms:

“I [name] accept you [name] as my [husband/wife/spouse].


What we don’t know yet, however, is whether anyone getting married will still have to use their legal name (as is the case now) as part of the changes. Many thanks to celebrant Holden So from Giddy & Gay Ceremonies for raising this crucial point on their Instagram page.


There’s also a brief reference to the ability be flexible on how the legal wording can be said in cases where either of the couple has a disability or a medical condition, where they give Tourette’s syndrome as an example.


We’d love a legal bilingual ceremony. Will this be possible under the new rules?


Yes, I think so! As an experienced wedding celebrant specialising in bilingual ceremonies in both Welsh and French, this is something I’m keeping a close eye on.


It’s worth a reminder that if you speak Welsh, you can already have a legal ceremony either fully in Welsh or a bilingual Wales/English ceremony in Wales with a registrar. Obviously in England it’s a lot harder to find a Welsh-speaking registrar, and it’s a big reason why Welsh-speaking couples in London choose me as their celebrant – so I really hope this is something I’ll be able to offer when the changes come through.


There’s not all that much detail on other languages like French in ceremonies in future, but the consultation does say the legal wording ‘could include words spoken in a language other than English or Welsh.’ This sounds positive to me, but the devil will be in the detail and I’ll be asking for more clarification when I respond to the consultation to make sure this will be possible.


So there's my take as an experienced wedding celebrant!


The main changes include:


  • The legalisation of humanist and other celebrant-led weddings – finally! But with no timeline set out as to exactly when that will happen, I still recommend couples book a second civil ceremony with a registrar for now.

  • Moving away from licensed venues to licensed people known as ‘officiants’ (including humanist celebrants like me!)

  • A welcome move to more inclusive legal wording to include the term ‘spouse’

  • The possible inclusion of other languages in legal weddings ceremonies


What do you think? Would these changes make it easier for you to have the wedding you want? If you could have your wedding anywhere you wanted, where would you have it?


As ever, if you have any questions, you’re so welcome to get in touch and more information about my wedding services is here. And for more inspiration, I'd love for you to read about three gorgeous weddings I led in June here.


Mair Garland is an experienced humanist celebrant based in London, leading weddings as well as baby naming ceremonies, funerals and celebration of life ceremonies in London, the South East and beyond. Mair specialises in bilingual ceremonies in Welsh and French.


This post was originally published on Substack. You can also follow Mair on Instagram here.





 

For any baby name geek, the day the ONS (Office for National Statistics) publishes its annual baby name data is like our Christmas, and as a humanist baby naming celebrant, I'm certainly no exception! We’ll speculate excitedly in the weeks and days running up to publication day and greedily gobble up the data.


Yesterday (8th July 2026), the ONS released the 2025 list, which covers England and Wales and gives breakdowns according to factors such as the local area and the age of the mother. While the top 10 doesn’t change all that much year to year, there’s plenty to unpack from the top 100 - so here we go!


In this blog post, I'm delving into the detail behind: the top 10 list, the top 100 list, the growing trend for shortened names, the most popular Welsh names in Wales and the relative lack of influence from popular culture.


The Top 10 - Olivia Reigns Supreme!


As with previous years, there’s been very little movement in the top 10 names for both girls and boys:


Humanist baby naming celebrant Mair Garland's blog about the top 100 baby names for England & Wales in 2025.

The text reads: official top 10 baby names in England and Wales 2025

Girls' names:
1. Olivia =
2. Lily (upwards arrow)
3. Amelia (downwards arrow)
4. Isla =
5. Florence (upwards arrow)
6. Freya (upwards arrow)
7. Poppy (upwards arrow)
8. Elsie (upwards arrow)
9. Ivy (downwards arrow)
10. Isabella (upwards arrow)

Boys' names
1. Muhammad =
2. Noah =
3. Leo (upwards arrow)
4. Luca (upwards arrow)
5. Arthur (downwards arrow)
6. Oliver (downwards arrow)
7. George (downwards arrow)
8. Oscar (upwards arrow)
9. Theodore (downwards arrow)
10. Freddie (upwards arrow)
Source: ONS

Newcomers to the top 10 this year include Freddie for the boys and Isabella for the girls, while both Archie and Ava have just been booted out of the top 10 to number 11. The biggest movement in the top 10 was Ivy, which has fallen from number 4 to number 9 in the girls’ category. Muhammad remains in the top spot for boys (with Mohammed at number 20), with some commentary noting the strong tradition for Muslim families to give the name to their eldest son.


Overall the top 10 still remains very stable, with names like Olive and Oliver and Lily and Luca likely to stay with us for the foreseeable future.


The Top 100 - New Names & Promoted Nicknames


While the top 10 doesn’t tell us much about the year-on-year movements for the most popular names, things become a lot more interesting in the top 100 list.

New entries this year include Eliana, which made huge gains to make it into 62nd place . Other new girls’ names in the top 100 include Gracie (though Grace is still more popular), Anaya, Alba, Marnie, Lilah and Frankie, while Vincent, Ruben (as an alternative spelling of ‘Reuben’), Stanley and Carter have made it onto the boys’ list.


Nature-inspired names continue to be popular for girls, including Daisy, Willow, Rose and Hazel - and perhaps unsurprisingly, Poppy becomes a very popular name for girls born in November and Ivy (though not Holly these days) creeps up in December.


Humanist baby naming celebrant Mair Garland.

The text reads:
Eliana

Origin: Hebrew, Italian, Spanish, Portuguese, English

Meaning: "my God has answered; sun"
Source: Nameberry

Nickname No More


One thing I’ve noticed this year especially is the prevalence of names that would once have been considered as nicknames or shortened names are being used in their own right - and are now sometimes more popular than the original. At my clients’ baby naming ceremonies, I’ve often seen parents choose to do this where they really want to honour a beloved relative and then want to give it a more contemporary spin to make it their own.


Here’s a breakdown below of how this plays out in the top 100, especially for the boys. We now have more boys called Freddie than Frederick in 2025 and more Vinnies than Vincents, while Theodore is still just about holding its own against Theo for now - though this is likely to change in the coming years. For the girls, Grace is still more popular than Gracie (which entered the top 100 this year like I mentioned earlier) and Lottie is quickly catching up with Charlotte.


Unfortunately the ONS doesn’t publish data on middle names, where I suspect families are more likely to hold on to the traditional, original versions of their ancestors’ names.


Humanist baby naming celebrant Mair Garland. The table shows a comparison between how original names rank against contemporary shorter names.
How do traditional names compare with their shorter counterparts?


Enwau Cymraeg - Welsh Names


As a proud Welsh woman with a strong Welsh name myself, I had to delve into the Wales-specific data and Welsh names specifically.


For girls, the Welsh names in the top 100 for Wales include:


-Mali (4)

-Alys (29) - while Alice doesn’t even feature in the top 100 for Wales

-Mabli (36)

-Ffion (joint 55th place)

-Seren (joint 55 place) - the Welsh word for ‘star’

-Nansi (61) - though the Nancy spelling is still slightly more popular in Wales at no. 55

-Eira (71) - the Welsh word for ‘snow’, which is popular for winter babies

-Efa (joint 72nd place) - just about more popular than ‘Eva’ (76), though not as popular as -Evie (36)

-Elsi (joint 72nd place) - though much less popular than ‘Elsie’, which is way up at number 3 in Wales

-Eleri (83)

-Lowri (94)

-Anwen (100)


And for boys in Wales, the Welsh names in the top 100 include:

-Osian (10)

-Macsen (12)

-Harri (21) - way ahead of the English spelling of Harry at no. 42

-Jac (26) - and likewise Jac is much higher in the rankings in Wales than Jack, which shares the 42nd position with Harry.

-Dylan (36)

-Elis (joint 36th place) and Ellis (51)

-Idris (53)

-Tomos (56) - though slightly below its English counterpart of ‘Thomas’ (42) and quite a bit behind Tommy (28)

-Emrys (65)

-Cai (81)

-Evan (90) - while it doesn’t have the Welsh ‘f’ spelling, Evan is still considered a name of Welsh origin.

-Dewi (96) - my dog’s name!

-Gruffydd (in joint 96th place)


Guto was the top boy’s name in Gwynedd (though it doesn’t feature in the top 100 in Wales), Tomos in joint first place on Ynys Môn (Anglesey), Osian in joint first place in Ceredigion, along with Mali in first place in Caerphilly and joint first place in Blaenau Gwent, Efa in Ceredigion, Elsi in joint first place in Denbighshire and Nansi in Gwynedd.


It’s also interesting to see the trend for shortened names is even more acute in Wales, with far many more Lotties than Charlotte (in 3rd and 39th place in Wales ) and more Theos than Theodores (in 3rd and 20th place in Wales.) There also seems to be a slight gender difference, with Welsh boys’ names ranking higher on average than for the girls.


What’s your favourite Welsh name? I was personally delighted to see there were six Mairs born this year!


No Obvious Influence from Popular Culture


Every year the press will try and find a link between the top 100 list and celebrity culture - there was the year Maeve and Otis from Sex Education were said to have influenced the charts, while Arthur and Ada were attributed to Peaky Blinders. Luca continues to do well, though it’s unclear whether the 2021 Disney film has a part to play in that.


Perhaps unsurprisingly, there were no baby Keirs born in 2025 and just 20 girls called Taylor - though Ophelia (the title of one of Taylor Swift’s songs released in October 2025) was in 81st place overall.


One Happy Humanist Baby Naming Celebrant & Name Geek!


So there we have it - it’s all over for another year!


It’s been interesting looking at how the stats compare with the babies whose naming ceremonies I’ve led in the last year or so as well - I’ve had a real mix of names in the top 10, the top 100 plus some rarer names in the top 500 and a couple of unique names where there haven’t been any listed at all; this happens when only 2, 1 or 0 babies have the name.


I always love hearing the story behind children’s names whenever I lead a naming ceremony, and taking a deeper look into the list of names for the last year gives a fascinating glimpse into our wider society today.


I’d love to hear your thoughts! Are there any names on the top 100 list that have surprised you? Any new favourites?


I was also really pleased to be quoted by HuffPost UK for their piece as well, which you can read here .


And if you'd like to work with me as your humanist baby naming celebrant, I'd love to hear from you. And for more inspiration, why not take a look at one of my previous blog posts on naming ceremonies here.


Mair Garland is a humanist celebrant based in London, leading baby naming ceremonies as well as weddings, funerals and celebration of life ceremonies in London, the South East and beyond. Mair specialises in bilingual ceremonies in Welsh and French.


This post was originally published on Substack. You can also follow Mair on Instagram here.



 



 

My June As a Multilingual Celebrant


It might only have been a month since the last instalment, but we’ve certainly had all four seasons this June. As a Celt in London, I can’t say I’ve loved the sweat and sleepless nights with the latest heatwaves, but the bilingual weddings I’ve led this month have been HOT HOT HOT (in the best possible way)! More on those below as well as my new online shop, a brand-new offering for funerals plus a shout-out from Josh Widdicombe, no less.


Three Beautifully Bilingual Weddings


I led three weddings in June, two that were bilingual in Welsh/English and one French/English wedding, with two of them being in London and my first ever in Bristol, which is truly the dream month for a multilingual celebrant like me. Congratulations, Llongyfarchiadau and Félicitations to them all!


Lisa & Andrew - Beckenham Place Mansion


At the start of month, we had Lisa & Andrew’s bilingual Welsh/English wedding in Beckenham Place Mansion. With them both coming from Wales, we had plenty of Welsh references throughout - including a Welsh love spoon exchange. The rain we had that day made the Mansion look even more atmospheric than usual and it created a really cosy ceremony vibe. My favourite detail from this wedding were their customised illustrations!


Multilingual celebrant Mair Garland. The image left-right is of a smiling groom wearing a suit, light pink shirt and navy tie; a smiling bride in a white dress; their multilingual celebrant, Mair Garland from Garland Ceremonies who is also smiling and wearing a bright blue dress with white flowers at Beckenham Place Mansion in South-East London.
Andrew & Lisa, Beckenham Place Mansion
Multilingual celebrant Mair Garland. The image is of a welcome sign with a bride and groom dressed in traditional Welsh dress and in a Cardiff Blues rugby shirt. The sign reads: 'Welcome to the wedding of / croeso i briodas Lisa & Andrew. 06.06.2026'
Lisa & Andrew's fabulous bilingual welcome sign!

Molly & David - York House, Twickenham


Molly and David, who are also from Wales (and have known each other since primary school!) held their wedding at York House, which is the register office in Twickenham. This is the first time I’ve worked at a register office as a celebrant, but the registrars and I worked really well together, with the registrars leading the legal section followed by my ceremony. David and Molly ended their ceremony by (literally) tying the knot with a hand fasting.

Couples often ask me about ceremonies with both a registrar and celebrant at the same time, and I’m more than happy to answer any questions you might have about how it works in practice.


Multilingual celebrant Mair Garland. L-R the image shows: a bride smiling and wearing a white off the shoulder dress; their multilingual celebrant Mair Garland smiling and wearing a navy paisley dress; the groom smiling and wearing a tuxedo and pink orchid buttonhole in the gardens of York House, Twickenham.
Molly & David - York House, Twickenham
Multilingual celebrant Mair Garland. To the bottom and middle of the photo are some burgundy and cream hand fasting cords used at a wedding in York House in Twickenham. The cords have been placed on a grey planter, where the trunk of a tree is visible, with the roots planted into lots of small slate tiles.
Molly & David's hand fasting ribbons on slate - a touch of North Wales in London!

Melody & Jonny - Berwick Lodge, Bristol


And last, but certainly not least, was Melody and Jonny’s bilingual French/English wedding at the lovely Berwick Lodge in Bristol and also live-streamed to Melody’s family in Guadeloupe! Jonny and Melody first met at choir and so it was only right that they and the choir sang a gorgeous version of All Of Me during the ceremony, which brought us all to tears - as did Jonny delivering his vows in immaculate French!


Multilingual celebrant Mair Garland. The image left-right shows: a smiling bride wearing a white dress, cape and tiara; their multilingual celebrant Mair Garland wearing a pink dress; the groom smiling in a blue suit and orange tie at Berwick Lodge in Bristol.
Melody & Jonny - Berwick Lodge, Bristol
Multilingual celebrant Mair Garland. The image shows a colourful order of service on a wooden chair at an outdoor wedding ceremony at Berwick Lodge in Bristol.
Jonny & Melody provided their guests with translations of their readings and vows

Looking ahead to July, I’m now busy putting the final touches on some gorgeous baby naming ceremonies, including my first at the Horniman Museum in Forest Hill.

I still have a couple of ceremony slots available from this autumn, so please get in touch!


New Funerals Offering: Pre-Planned Funerals & Living Funerals


I’m now offering both Pre-Planned and Living Funerals as part of my wider funerals offering. But what are they, and what’s the difference between them both?


Pre-Planned Funerals


It’s a real misconception that you have to be of a certain age or living with a life-limiting illness to plan for your funeral: anyone can do it. Whether you’ve been thinking actively about the type of funeral you want or you’re coming up with your funeral wishes for the first time, I can help you put pen to paper.


You can include as much (or as little) detail as you want in your funeral wishes - where do you want to have it? What music do you want played? What readings? Who would you like to speak? How do you want people to feel? I can help you firm up your ideas as well as capturing your life story in your own words or even write the whole script for you, if that’s what you’d like.


Living Funerals


I first came across the concept of a Living Funeral in Grayson Perry’s excellent series, Rites of Passage. As the name suggests, a living funeral will take place when the person we’re honouring is still alive. Those who choose to hold a living funeral for themselves will often do so where they’re living with a life-limiting illness and want to say goodbye to the most important people in their lives on their own terms, in their own words and in a place that’s meaningful to them.


The Garland Ceremonies Online Shop is Open!


I’ve cut the figurative ribbon on my brand new online shop, where I have two brand new webinars available to buy, drawing from my experience as a multilingual celebrant:


My intention for both of these workshops is to empower anyone who wishes to hold a part of their ceremony in more than one language to do so (and indeed other celebrants and industry professionals who want to learn more about bilingual ceremonies or want to offer them to their own clients). They both cover questions including: the benefits of a bilingual ceremony; where to include a second language; how to include a second language and case studies of real bilingual ceremonies.


Both webinars are for sale for £22 each or for £35 as a bundle.


While I speak English, Welsh and French, I hope these webinars will be useful to you whatever language you speak and wherever in the world you are.


Garland Ceremonies in the Press


Parenting Hell Podcast Small Business Shoutout!


On the same day I was travelling to Melody and Jonny’s wedding in Bristol, I was listening to one of my favourite podcasts, Parenting Hell, when I heard the one and only Josh Widdicombe give a small business shoutout to Garland Ceremonies and to naming ceremonies especially! I’d written in a few weeks before, and had totally forgotten about it, so it came as a complete surprise as I was stepping onto the train at Paddington. Thank you, Parenting Hell!


In the words of Josh Widdicombe, naming ceremonies really are ‘a great idea!


Humanist naming ceremonies by multilingual celebrant Mair Garland. The image is a quote from an episode of the Parenting Hell podcast, where comedian Josh Widdicombe is giving a small business shoutout to humanist celebrant Mair Garland. The caption is written with white text against an orange background that says: "these are really fun, meaningful and personal occasions where your little one will be at the heart of it all. Your baby doesn't have to be a newborn and you're always welcome to involve older siblings too."

Listen to the episode here.



June has been a wonderful month of weddings and still plenty of barbecues in the garden! I’m really looking forward to celebrating lots of lovely new babies with their naming ceremonies in July to start planning some lovely late summer and autumn ceremonies, including a wedding in France! As ever, I’d love your feedback on the newsletter and if you’re thinking of planning a ceremony later this year or in 2027, I’d love to hear from you.


Hwyl am y tro (bye for now!)


Mair x


 
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